Monday, November 18, 2013

Last Week’s “Favorite Things” Recap

I LOVE change! There is no quicker way for me to get bored than to do the same things, eat the same foods, or go to the same places consistently. Thank goodness that Derek is the “creature of habit” in our relationship because I can just be all over the place sometimes. :) I love to try new activities, go new places, and buy new products often. Don’t worry; I keep the budget in mind ALWAYS.

Some things I find through word-of-mouth recommendations, others I pick up on a whim impulse buy, and sometimes I just go the good old fashioned way by showing up and trying the food/activity/product for myself. DISCLAIMER: I was not paid or asked to review, comment, or suggest any of the items mentioned in this post. But, I wouldn’t mind a little perk in the future… *hint, hint* ;)

Like I said, I do not have the tendency to be a creature of habit, so my “favorites” that I will be sharing with you will change from week-to-week. For this week though, here are three recommendations for you to try based on my explorations from last week:


New eats:


If you love 1) Italian food, and 2) the idea of customizing your entire meal and not paying a fortune for it, then you will definitely want to check out Italio! I had been driving past this restaurant for the last several weeks and curiosity finally got the best of me. Derek and I went for our “date night” last Friday and we had an all-around great experience. The pasta was well-cooked, the ingredients were very fresh, and the environment was casual and inviting. You pretty much are given a HUGE bowl (great portion to cost ratio) and then start choosing all of the goodies you want thrown inside  of your dish- kind of like Chipotle, only better. Give it a try!

Italio
276 S. Orlando Ave.
Winter Park. FL. 32789 

New app:

(For iPhone/iPad*)

I love to practice yoga, but it can get a little pricey if you take classes at a studio regularly. It definitely is worth the investment though, especially if you are new to your practice, but I found an app that has let me enjoy the benefits of a well-structured class right in the comfort of my own living room. Sometimes I am a little hesitant to try workouts from an app because I question how much of a burn I will really get, but my new yoga app find proved me wrong! The Yoga Studio App is awesome! I got to download it from the Apple App Store for free thanks to one of those little perk cards that are in Starbucks- always check them out! The app has preloaded classes that you can use for your practice, or you can build your own by picking poses to create a sequence. There is a library too with all of the poses and explanations on how to get in them properly. The voice that narrates the classes is interestingly soothing, and the flow is simple enough to keep up with. The $2.99 that you will spend it pennies considering how many hours of yoga practice you can get out of the app. Let me know what you think!



Online shopping:


I am starting to value more the convenience of shopping online, especially when the malls and stores are getting cray at this time of year. I found the Modern Boutique site through a recommendation from someone at my church after I asked about the gorgeous statement necklace that she had on that Sunday. This site is extremely easy to navigate through and the limited amount of products featured (mainly statement piece necklaces) makes the shopping experience not be overwhelming. They have great deals often, and the piece I ordered as a gift came much sooner than I expected. You might be able to find a little something here for the fashion-forward person on your Christmas list!

 **Always be careful of the sites you visit when shopping online, and make sure that when you purchase something it is from a secure site too.  I did not have any problems with Modern Boutique. **



Try something new this week! Tell me about your favorites and I might just try them out too. :)

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

So...Baby?

We are just a day away from our two-and-a-half year married mark. Woohoo! Before we tied the knot, the topic of "kids" came up a few times and we thought we would wait two years and then try to have a "little Janney." Well, then two years came too fast and we were not ready yet. No big deal, not to us at least.

After our first year mark though, it seemed like something shifted and the avalanche of baby probing questions started to come through:

"When are you going to have kids?"
 
"You know, you two will have cute babies. When is that going to happen?"
 
"Are you pregnant? Do you want to be?"

"So... baby news?"
 
"What is your baby plan?"

"It can take a long time. You should start soon. When? "
 
"Are you on birth control?"

 
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
 


I didn't mind the questions too much at first as it was fun talking about being a mom someday. However, then it got a little too personal and I found myself getting overwhelmed with how often curiosity was striking others to ask. I love babies and I am looking forward to us being parents one day, but we are just not there yet. Then, I started thinking about why I was getting bothered and it was more about me and not so much about the person that was asking the questions. I had to pinpoint reasons why I was getting asked in the first place to realize that it wasn't because someone thought that I was weird for not having a tot in tow, or that I might be trying to hide something.

I narrowed down some of the top reasons why people ask newlyweds about a baby, in hopes that you will understand and not get annoyed like I did. Most people really do have the best of intentions at heart!

Top 3 Reasons Why Newlyweds Get Asked About BABY:


1. Curiosity

Let's face it. Who wouldn't want to know if/when their favorite duo is going to be having a mini-me? :)

2. To make conversation

I have found that being around moms naturally brings up baby talk. If you are the only one in the conversation without a little cutie, then be ready to get asked. And, that is ok. Most of the time it is just a mom being sweet to you knowing that your time will come eventually, and she might just want to give you a (valuable!) tip or two.

3. Because YOU asked

One of life's greatest fascinations to me is the miracle of the human body being able to have a baby. I just think it is one of the coolest things to learn about and to ask questions about. Naturally, I like to ask people who have "been there, done that" so that I can hear different perspectives. When you ask, be ready to get asked in return. If you don't want to, then don't bring it up or politely decline to comment. :)


Like I said, most people that ask newlyweds questions about starting a family just love you and want to be in the "know" of when you will be sharing baby news. Try not to be quick to get offended or upset by the questions. I figured that out, thank God. You can politely deter the conversation in a different direction if you get uncomfortable by baby questions or kindly decline to talk about it. Some people prefer to tell a joke or ask a personal question back, but I don't think I am skilled like that yet. :)

Have you been asked the "b" questions a lot since you got married? How did you cope? Or, are you a MatureMarried with different insight for one of the reasons above? I would love to know!





Monday, November 11, 2013

13 Things I Learned After My First Half Marathon



I did it. I get to now say, “I am half crazy,” but only for a short time. Every runner knows that as soon as one goal is accomplished there is another one to follow. I am already plotting out what I want to run next! While I don’t see a full marathon in the horizon for at least another year (or two), I do want to share some of what worked for me in my FIRST half marathon. I don’t know if my approach to the race over the course of the last year could work for everyone, but it just might. It is important to find your “strong” in what makes you comfortable first before tackling a race like a half marathon. I have done a couple of 5ks and shaved time off of each one, but I found myself wanting more. I am not talking about a 10k more; I wanted to go big, BIG. So, at the beginning of the year I took a risk and found a small, local half marathon and decided that I would train and make it happen. And, that I did. Yes, I should have stuck to my training plan better but I now know what to correct for next time. There are many things I took notes on, but here are my top 13 lessons learned from my race yesterday!

 

1.       Rest and nutrition aren’t just for race day

I am so glad that I did my homework way in advance and learned this in the weeks leading up to the race. I quickly picked up that I would have to get my act together with my nutrition and rest to make it to the finish line alive. With juggling school this semester, it has been hard for me to get to bed at decent times, but I did the best I could to get sufficient zzz’s which is vital for muscle recovery. Nutrition has never been an issue for me but I had to find out a good balance with carbs and protein. I think every runner’s body is different and taking care of yourself by getting enough rest and eating well will go a long way when training and running a big race, whatever that race may before you.

 

2.       Recruit support and accountability

I was a little shy to tell people about my race for different reasons, so I didn’t talk about it too much. But, there were a few who remembered and they were there to cheer me on. It made a grand difference to have cheerleaders at three different mile stops and at the finish line. I will never forget that. Thank you!

 

3.       Don’t be consumed with a PR

Since this was my first half marathon, I didn’t know what to expect beyond what I had read and heard from friends. I knew that I wouldn’t be a top finisher and I was ok with that. I also knew that I didn’t want any injuries which meant I would have to keep a slower pace than what I could do on shorter runs. I was ok with that too. I just wanted to cross the finish line smiling! Oh, and I didn’t want to be the last person… serious fear. I did say that I would have been happy to finish in 2:30-2:45 and I was thrilled to have come in just some seconds after 2:28! “Trust your training and go,” was one of my mantras and it helped me beat my expected time. Enjoy your “firsts,” there are plenty of races in the future to work on PRs and other goals.

 

4.       Prepare your mental game in advance

It is true that running is more in your head than in your body. I just heard about recent research that shows that it is your mind that can tell your body that you’re exhausted before you actually are to that point. Yikes! The brain has a lot of power. In the last few weeks, I read Bible verses, held onto words, and remembered phrases that I put into my “mantra bank” to pull from on race day. The first six miles were easy, but around mile seven I started to get a little tired and these mantras were golden to have on demand. Among several others I told myself, “one more mile,” “run with endurance,” “Too far to quit now,” and “How bad do you want this?” You can psyche yourself up pretty good when you already know what to tell yourself when in doubt!

 

5.       Be kind to others on the route  

There were a few runners that were already on their way back to the finish line when I wasn’t even at the halfway point. They kindly looked me in the eyes, and several others, in crossing and said, “Great job! Keep going!” Aside from excellent sportsmanship, their words were encouraging for the next few miles. I returned the favor to others on my way back to the finish line and it felt so good to make someone else smile. J

 

6.       Energy runs out FAST

 Never have I experienced depleted energy so quickly like I did during the race. I am SO glad I packed two energy supplements for the way, a GU Gel and a pack of Sports Beans. I had a Sports Beans pack thirty minutes before the start too. Next time, I will definitely add a third supplement because I struggled towards the end a bit. I ate the Beans at mile five and had the GU at mile 7ish. I definitely needed one more boost around mile 10-11. You have to listen to your body and determine what you need! I know better for next time.

 

7.       Slow your roll

In the first six miles I wanted to go faster than I did. I felt good, had my breathing under control, and thought I could pick up the pace significantly. However, I knew better. I had to remind myself that I still had a good stretch to go and that I would burn out too quickly if I didn’t slow myself down a bit. Thank goodness I did take it back a notch! Having a watch to monitor my pace was key, but you can easily do the same with a phone and app if that’s how you train. I think I would have burned out too quickly had I relied on my “intuition” to keep my pace.

 

8.       Give thanks along the way

There are plenty of people that wake up early to help makes races happen. From the water stop volunteers to the cops that make sure we don’t get run over at intersections, many people are involved to help you get across the finish line. A simple, “thank you!” as you pass by goes a long way. They didn’t have to be there for you, but they chose to anyway.

 

9.       Be “all there”

 I didn’t run with music for a reason. I wanted to hear the footsteps of the other runners around me and soak in every little moment of what was going on in my first BIG race. I am so glad I did. I heard friends encouraging each other along the way and random runners singing whatever was on their playlists at the time.  It was hard towards the end to run to my own "beat" when I could have had an up-tempo song to energize me, but I kept myself in the “moment.” Whatever that looks like for you, don’t miss the opportunity to be all there.

 

10.   Don’t stop after the race

Post-race recovery is super important for the health of your muscles and to help you recover from a grueling run. I felt dizzy after crossing the finish line so I didn’t keep walking to help my muscles come down. I had to sit down for a few minutes, but next time I will definitely keep walking. I ate the goodies they had available (fruit, bread, peanut butter, etc.) and chugged a Gatorade on my way back home. I sucked it up and took two ice baths too, one immediately after I got home and the other a few hours later. I put frozen veggies on my sore spots (knees and left ankle), foam rolled a few times, and I feel GREAT today.  I did a thirty minute yoga sequence which also helped with the soreness and tension in my muscles. I am going to monitor the minor aches tomorrow (two days post-race) as I slowly get back into the swing of things to make sure that I don’t overlook any serious possible injuries. Listen to your body and take care of yourself immediately after the race!

 

11.   Cross training helps get you to the finish line

Little did I know that doing Camp Gladiator in the last several months would help prepare me to run with endurance. Getting up at 6am for workouts during the week has been difficult in the last couple of months with long, crazy semester nights but my cross training days with CG carried me through in the end. I finished strong, CG strong! I can’t wait to kick it up a notch and see how much better I can do next time around. Find a cross training schedule that works well for you!

 

       12. Stick to what is “tried and true”

I read over and over again that races aren’t meant for trying anything new. I was tempted to wear a new outfit, but I am sure glad I didn’t. I stuck to wearing something I had run in before, including shoes. The only new things I sported on race day was a pair of more cushioned socks, a new hat to keep the sun out of my eyes, and a watch that my hubs got me as an early birthday present. I had no wardrobe malfunctions or chaffing issues, or any other related horrors to tell about. Whew! I also ate something pre-race that I was used to: a banana and peanut butter toast, and drank about 20oz of water, and a little black coffee. Your stomach is sensitive and you don’t want to aggravate it to the point of affecting your run.

 
13. Have fun!

 You will run better races than others. No matter what, enjoy the miles and be proud that you had the courage to get out there and challenge yourself!

 

I’d love to hear from you! What are some of your stories and/or tips from races? What have you learned to do and what not to do?